Penetrative sex is pleasurable, allowing one to feel the sensation of something filling the body while gliding along sensitive nerve clusters. When we think about penetration sex, we tend to think of a man penetrating a woman. Thanks to sex toys, however, the penetration paradigm has opened up. I am talking about strap-on dildos, which allow a woman to become the penetrator. Here, we are going to look at the ways that a woman and her partner – male or female – can enjoy this wonderful toy.
The typical strap-on dildo features a harness that fits over a woman’s pelvis. Some varieties feature a vinyl or cloth panty instead of a harness. The dildo extends forward from the harness with roughly the same positioning and angle as a typical male penis. Some strap-ons feature realistic dildos while others are designed to maximize G-Spot stimulation. Many feature vibrating dildos and may or may not have a remote control. The harness may have an additional dildo designed to fit inside the woman wearing the strap-on. This dildo functions both to provide additional stability for the harness as well as to provide the woman pleasure.
There are many places online where you can buy strap on dildos and here are some cool ideas for their use:
Two Girls One Dildo
Just because a woman is not attracted to men does not mean that she does not enjoy vaginal penetration. For lesbian couples, the strap-on dildo provides a way to share physical pleasure and enhance intimacy. Partners can vary who wears the strap-on and some allow for dildo attachments to be changed out, allowing women to experience different widths, lengths, and textures.
Something Different for Him
While the ass is still largely considered taboo and anal sex tends to be relegated to homosexual activity, more and more heterosexual men are beginning to open up to the possibility of experiencing other pleasures. Discussion about the prostate and prostate orgasms has helped open many eyes to anal play. New attention to BDSM, where “pegging” (the practice of a female Dominant penetrating her male submissive while wearing a strap-on dildo) is a common activity, has also brought attention to the idea more men enjoying anal play.
Does enjoying anal play mean you are homosexual or bisexual?
In a word, no. Sexual orientation refers to the gender of person you are attracted to, not what activity you enjoy. Anal penetration for most men is simply about receiving pleasure. For those who are interested in BDSM, a control aspect is added to this pleasure, as they tend to submit to the woman who penetrates them.
In recent years, people have begun noticing and exploring different types of sexual relationships. This curiosity has brought polyamory (relationships involving more than two people) closer to mainstream attention. It has also invited couples to explore the option of a threesome either with a second man or in many cases, a second woman.
For a female-male-female threesome, a strap-on dildo opens up many possibilities. It allows one woman to penetrate the other while herself enjoying vaginal penetration from the male partner. It opens the threesome to double-penetration – where one woman is penetrated vaginally and anally at once, something that would otherwise only be possible with a male-female-male threesome. The versatility and exploration that a strap-on offers adds a new dimension to the threesome that can enhance pleasure and intimacy.
The strap-on is a versatile and imaginative couple’s toy. Whether used by lesbian couples, straight couples, or threesomes, it offers new ways to explore sexuality together. Couples are limited only by their own inhibitions and imagination.